16 Things to avoid on a first date

1.       Avoid food fights which can result in really tough stain.

2.       Avoid discovering you left your money [wallet] at home after eating a five-course meal in an expensive restaurant.

3.       pear wearing under wear as outerwear

4.       Avoid appearing 2 eager 4 a date by calling every five minutes to inform that in fact you really do have a date not dreaming or hallucinating.

5.       Avoid neither extravagance nor being cheap.

6.       Avoid using excessive expressions (phrases) like ‘wow’ ‘me too’, ‘really’

7.       Avoid being someone other than you are or your date will think he/she is out on a date with a wrong person.

8.       Avoid picking, scratching or rubbing any part of your body.

9.       Avoid dating a girl /guy who says yes to every thing you say.

QUESTIONS: 1. How can you tell if you are really in love with someone are there signs to watch out for.

2.  I’ve got a problem (have lot of guys who are good friends, but that’s as far as it going. They seem to enjoy being with one as a’pal”, but when it comes to dating a romantic relationship, they always   go elsewhere, what can I do? Am tried of being left out.

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10.Avoid eating all foods containing hot pepers, extra onion-you Know what happen after you ‘ve spoken.

11. Avoid dating who offers to pick you up in a borrowed car.

12. Avoid a date who tells you his break-up story.

13.   Avoid making a pass at your water/waiter while your present date is checking the menu.

14.   Avoid spending the whole evening letting your date know how much he/she reminds you of your ex-girl/boy friend, mother or sister.

15.   Avoid over dreaming and under dreaming.

16.   Avoid talking too much but don’t have a silent date.

Ways to succeed as a corper

 I could not believe my sight, am actually going to serve my fatherland as i search for my call-up letter.

Cool, my only opportunity away from home, old friends, gossips and an open door to a whole new life, enough flexing, clubbing {I’d never gone to any party not talk of clubs} yeah, late nights, anything.

Lesson 1:-Never see the service year as an escape from home or opportunity to live a bad life. Always see it of a platform to succeed and stabilize in life.

       Ok, bottom line, am looking ravishing for the camp, i thought to myself as I made a list of what I want to buy.

Lesson 2: Obey the rule of necessity, buy only the natal items. You might need money for something else.

Uncle, aunts & friends always help, they did give a few wins and plus my savings. Kenny heard the meal is always bad. I spoke to a friend, and it lacks the required nutrients, because, the population is always much on camp, replied Kenny.

My big sis gave enough word-to avoid ulcers or malnutrition, don’t eat in the kitchen, eat out, I read out to my friends, mami you mean then, I got the same info from a friend recited Chelsea an we made our way down to mami market. 21 days, 2 times a day {morning, afternoon} I ate at mami and flexed all nights.

Lesson 3:  Learn 2 save, try the kitchen food, it has never killed any. Lets help you do your laundry, then gold jewelry looks good on you-please buy from me, do you want 2 serve in capital city- it will cost a little. A lot happens in camp-they did my laundry- 4-money.

I  bought their gold-my money.

I really need to serve in the capital city-my same money.

Lesson 3B: Save {they do not matter an inch} be wise in spending.

Fellowship are for the over spiritual, I am a Christian but not those……{thinking}- while others did. Your first night outside camp might be under a bridge, close to the burial ground, opposite the village shrine-so you need them.

LESSON 4: Christian/Muslim/pagan-join a fellowship group-they always help in directing a shelter counseling {remember your tithe don’t sub God}. Stupid me I never did.

Serving with one of the ministries in the city, I did take my time- go 2 work twice a week but didn’t stay till 1:o ‘clock (1 pm). Am a corper , am free, unlimited to under no laws persay.

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Reader-hey! What comes 2 your mind? Option A flat , self-contained, just a .room

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